Are We Just A Pretense?

here's a story i know about a gal n a guy years back...

they were in the same high school. they start to hang out together. and as time goes by, they hang out more often, liking each other's company. it seems they were inseparable. people see them as THE couple. she was happy. they would go for movie dates, hold hands strolling on a beach, hug each other good nights...

then, one day, evrything stop. the guy seems to avoid the gal, in any way. the gal, still have feelings for the guy, was conjuring up lots of reasons why the guy may hv behave this way. at last, she caught the guy, one day, near the study bench, where they used to sit and whisper sweet-nothings. staring at his eyes, she begged for an answer. an answer to why they drifted apart. was it because he didnt love her anymore? did he want a break up?

and with a cold hard stare, he replied, "break up? since when am i ur boifren anyway? ive never say 'i love you', n i nvr declared that we are in a relationship n nvr had i seen you as my galfren. pls, get a life."

and with that, the gal jus crumbled, along wif her hopes and happiness...

i dun wanna end up like the gal, having blissful moments only to see them crashing down hard. i make a promise to myself that till a guy openly declare his feelings to me, i will nvr take his actions seriusly. will rather brush it off as him being friendly than having to nurse my broken heart when its not what i perceive it to be. enuff said.